Inspired by the results of Ainsworth's research, subsequent researchers branched out to study adults and discovered much the same thing. People who feel more securely attached (comfortable being close to and depending on someone) aren't just happier, but more likely to seek thrills like rock climbing and parachute jumping and throw themselves into new situations and challenges, like meeting strangers and traveling overseas.
It's not always easy to spot a narcissist, but knowing who they are can save you from heartbreak. Dr. Craig Malkin, author of Rethinking Narcissism, breaks down the hidden warning signs of a narcissist. Watch as he explains how they work—and how you can protect your own emotional health. Original broadcast on #OWNSHOW
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"What is Narcissism?" It like it's bad. Dr. Craig Malkin offers a radically new model for understanding that it's a spectrum of self-importance---and everyone falls somewhere on the scale between utter selflessness and total arrogance. Click here to listen.
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Dr. Malkin outlines the dos and don’ts of picking our next leader by helping us understand the good and bad traits of narcissism. Click here to listen.
Did you know that “what is narcissism” is one of the fastest-rising searches on Google? Dr. Craig Malkin offers a radically new model for understanding this often misused term. Listen to Dr. Malkin discuss the spectrum of narcissism- the bad and surprisingly good- about feeling special. Original broadcast at WTCM NewsTalk 580
Our Facebook profiles create people want ideal versions ourselves
Facebook and other social media allow users to present a curated self, showing friends or the public a happier or more accomplished version of a person. Most of the time it is trivial. But in some cases, the gap between reality and the Facebook version can be striking, and troubling.
The plots of romance movies are fairly predictable. Two romantically challenged characters will meet, realize they're destined to be together, encounter a series of problems meant to separate them, but by the end they'll be wrapped in each others' arms. Cue the credits.
In some rare cases (i.e. Hollywood movies that usually don't reflect reality), bringing a baby into the world can bring a couple closer together. Having a baby can create a bond that encourages mature personal growth and strengthens a couple's commitment to each other -- but that doesn't happen overnight, and more often, it doesn't happen at all.
Late last year, I wrote a piece where I shared a perspective, based on growing research, that narcissism isn't simply a stubborn trait, but a style of coping. The seeds of that idea turned into a book, scheduled for release in spring next year. Since I promised a follow up, I'm taking a brief break from the larger project to deliver on my promise. Here's a glimpse at what's to come. If you think your partner's a narcissist, you might want to try these seven strategies.
When you are feeling depressed, having a loving, supportive relationship with your partner can help you in your path towards healing and creating a happier life. But often depression interferes with your relationship, distancing you from your partner during your time of need. Get the book.